Monday Addie took her first big trip to the Mall. We were in search of the perfect Easter dress. Her Nini (Lana) went with us. After sifting through hundreds of couture frocks, we settled on a pretty white dress with pink ruffles from JC Penneys.
The trip was a complete success, Addie was in a good mood and wide awake and it was the first time we used her normal stroller versus the jogging stroller. After getting Addie's dress we went to the EyeMaster store so Nini could get her glasses fixed. That's when it happened - my beautiful, feminine daughter got called a BOY!! The lady in the store said, 'Oh, HE'S so cute!'
I was like really, HE?! She has a pink paci on a green strap with pink polka dots, she's cuddled up to a pink stripped blanket and her shirt, while green, has a brown bird on it with pink and purple designs.
Am I confused or doesn't PINK = FEMALE?? If I had a boy did she really think I would have loaded him up with pink gear for a public outing?? While I wanted to verbally tear her to shreds for being so completely oblivious to the obvious gender of my baby - I simply said, 'She's a girl' and turned around and walked out.
The only thing I can think of that would have given her any inclination that I was toting a baby boy around is the fact Addie was wearing brown pants. I spent hours and trips to multiple stores (including the stores where you could spend as much on 1 outfit for a 3 month old as you could a 31 year old) to find those darn brown pants. I made it a mission to find pants for my daughter that weren't pink. I mean how many pairs of pink pants should 1 person have?? Addie had about 5.
I just didn't understand why retailers don't make anything for baby girls that isn't pink. I might have learned that lesson the hard way. But don't think that one ignorant lady is going to stop me from putting brown pants on my baby girl. Nope, Addie will be a trend setter and wear boy colors proudly. She's a real Coco Chanel of our time - not going to abide by society's rules that girls must wear clothes that scream 'I have 2 X chromosomes!'
Well that and I will now make sure she's wearing a bow until her hair grows in. ;)